1. Don't lose ambition and desire ambition and desire (here is a positive state of ambition and desire) can make a person's power play extremely to, can force a man gave their all to exclude all obstacles, they can make people before the full speed and do not have trouble back at home. So, we should keep a kind of ambition and desire, don't throw them out.
2. Don't see success of too complicated
In fact, success is not as we look so complex, sometimes less is more easy to success-although it sounds some incredible. Sometimes we should let mentality of complex, some simple things in a simple way to do, often will receive the result that expect is less than.
3. The person to work to be honest
Bacon said: "honesty is the first principle" treat people. Friends, no matter where you are, babe or after the change, things change, please believe in good faith, the good faith, the good faith to keep. You can keep a heart, to win the contract human dignity, will eventually an achievement of the great cause.
4. Believe that I can do
If there is a person if you don't believe in, still can expect others to believe? Believe that you can make it. With a strong self-confidence, can handle all kinds of test, frustration and failure, the self-confidence will make us useful life.
5. Withstand the test of suffering
Suffering is a wealth, it will train will, make the person is obtained the truth of life. China is an idiom, said the sunshine. Another line and he said, to eat without pains. These are encouraging people to withstand the test of suffering in the face of suffering, patience, want to have hope, the only keep such a state of mind, just to the brilliant life.
6. Make full use of all available resources
Our own resources are limited, but the resources around us is infinite, want to be successful, we need to have this idea: from now on, to use their own resources and use the resources, use all around the available resources-to do this is not difficult.
7. Put down the shelf, from small start
Now this is the age of competition, want to have become a successful is not practical. Big business often are made by into small manageable and achievement, that we have to put down the shelf, don't meet all the small anything, from small start, in many cases, just is to determine our success or failure of the small things.
8. Be a man of integrity
How the most basic a rule is upright. Honest, is responsible, tell the truth, to do the practical work, for any things, already peace of mind and insist the principle. Honesty is a virtue of being, is also a kind of person a positive mental attitude. Do a man of integrity, it won't go against my conscience, can deserve "person" the word.
9. The person to work to improvise
Changes in increasing probability and change has been accelerating today, the stodgy is not possible progress. Everyone has to have a kind of pursuing new and change state of mind, can follow the development of The Times. Might as well as their tree a motto-" the same impassability, a change is sufficient."
10. Do want to dare to call
Generally speaking, a person in work before decisions, can dare to determination will directly determine the battle. In it to calm when decisions, 10 million analysis, dare to don't hesitate, more important is, in the determination to meet all after to do.
11. The failure as successful a stepping stone
We don't fear of failure, want to have "often hurt often war" of the spirit, the failure to success as a stepping stone, when you suffer from failure, the more you will more and more closer to success from. Of course, you must have enough against failure of ability, and constantly striving to forge ahead.
12. Allow for all things
A person wants to good survival and development, will do "everything" replacements to allow for himself. We should have such consciousness: when we choose a path, we also should be his to the second road, the third way.
13. Learn to choose, know how to give up
A man is to learn to give up, give up you don't want to do; A man is to learn to choose, the choice you like and good at doing. As long as you in your own life to find suitable for their life coordinates, you will be able to give full play to their intelligence, and thus to a successful end.
14. Put a thing to keep working on it
Do any one thing, all assignments, insist to finish it. Don't give up easily, if give up, you'll never without the possibility of success. If a setback, you have to tell yourself: repeatedly put this matter to keep working on it.
15. Give yourself a little courage
A lot of things on the surface looks difficult to achieve, but in fact it is very simple, as long as we take out a little courage to try, often will get the result that expect is less than. We each have our own courage, this is no shortage of wealth, want to know a reasonable use, otherwise is to waste.
16. Facing the competition will be strong
Competition is a common phenomenon, no escape, a person can't be from competition and exist. In the challenges, in addition to keep the good competitive: state outside, should notice more in personality, in knowledge, wisdom, strength in the double to grow and become more mature, more powerful, and to victory.
The failure to advance power
17. Rely on solving the problem themselves
Don't always depend on others, and all the hopes on other people, and to rely on solving the problem themselves, because everyone has many things to do, he could only have maximum help us, others can only help but can't help a for life. So, it is better to trust yourself by people, the only people who can depend on is yourself.
18. The saying "no" to say "no" when
The person to work to learn to refuse to others, should say "no" to say "no" when, this is to protect themselves, as the person to work is a principle. Don't be shy and don't have the courage to say "no" to the ably "no" said it, otherwise, hurt will be your own.
19. Glad to accept other people's opposition
We often encounter opposition, but the others to accept the opposition person is not much, which we need to put things right. In fact, others opposition or more or less all some truth, for the correct objections, we will gladly accepted, for the wrong opposition, we do not need to strongly argue against. Learn to accept opposition, can we make our become outstanding.
20. Continuously encourage and shape his
One can not always full of passion and fight, so, we need to motivate yourself to keep the passion and spirit. Don't attempt to live in someone else's incentive, motivated is the most effective incentive mode. No one can really change you, only you can change yourself.
21. Failure to advance the..
We have their own defects and even physical defects is not fearful, we become passive, even cynicism. Defects in front, we must keep positive attitude, become defects in the driving force of our struggle, the only way that we can master of your own destiny.
22. Your work life
Pursue perfect life is our natural demand, can only pay attention to success, for her work life, is the life be short of regret. Your work life, don't work and life in order to lose. We should do a good job in at the same time, don't ignore the life.
23. Early eliminate as hated emotions
Are you very tired of your current job? I think most of the answer is yes. As of anaerobic mood to that we lost work fun, also can seriously affect our work and life, we should remove it as soon as possible. To eliminate the emotion, will be as hated keep good work attitude, learn to love their career, reasonable arrangement of work and life, so that we can find a originally with full enthusiasm and energy.
24. Learn to work pressure
Working pressure is usually everyone and face a serious problem. Too much stress on the job will not only crowded go happy, also related to the personal development of the cause of the, healthy body, family harmony to wait a lot of life elements. So, we should like to work pressure have a correct understanding, learn to give to their own work, only let myself out of relief work pressure, we will live with ease.
25. In work is to be happy
Want to make the job boring or happy? I'm afraid nobody willing to choose the former. Actually, the work is work, it will never be like the leisure vacation as full of novelty and the joy, the key is how do you find and create happy. As long as you really go to look for, happiness will come.
26. Open your mind
No matter what we do, only can be surprisingly winning, this is a kind of high quality of the work mentality. Surprisingly is that others want to not think of others, do not do it, only in this way can you apart from the competition. But surprisingly, you must open the closed mind, maybe a new original, it is possible to improve our performance, change our lives.
27. With patience to wait for success
Success in many cases depend on each of success and failure attitude. As the old man said, on the way to success, you don't have the patience to wait for the arrival of success, then, you have to use the lifetime of the patient to face failure. That is, favors only success in patient man.
28. Studious would have achievement
A clever, talented, was brave is a person of success is an important condition, but, these are not the most important, it is the most important to work hard. Work hard to have asking questions, you are never too old to learn and overcome all difficulties spirit, will truly have learned something, skills to use.
29. We need a the spirit of adventure
There is a word for "riches and honour for", in the risk that was reasonable. Although we do not agree with blindly adventure, but we do need a spirit of adventure. Because the status quo, is limits is never forward, because of the success of the opportunities are often the most favored risk taker.
30. Don't blindly to imitate others
You can imitate others, but not blindly to imitate. Don't live in the shadow of others, you are you, not the counterpart of the others. Boldness and forward, leaving their own footprints, to be able to live out the real you.
31. Be good at creating and seize the opportunity
Opportunities to those who want to successful people is the most valuable, opportunities will visit everyone, not seize the opportunity, more talented people will be buried life. One can't be facing opportunity, this time all need to depend on you to create opportunities. You want to know, to grab and create opportunities, must pay your action.
32. Don't be intimidated by setbacks
In everyone's life or small or large meet many setbacks, that no one could avoid. In the face of a setback, we don't be intimidated, should face setbacks, think of it as to our test is successful, strong to continue to go on, setbacks will serve as your a stepping stone.
Tolerance is life's a supreme state
33. Keep a kind of creative thinking
Creative thinking is a positive attitude, all the great things are beyond into normal innovative thinking. In a brutal competition, innovation to a party before the mind will bring vitality and vigor. There is no doubt that we have to keep a kind of creative thinking, with new thinking breaks through conventional ideas, beyond his past, can be in an impregnable position.
34. Objective treatment of the cause of the "bottleneck" period
Everyone will encounter career of "bottle" period, at this strength, don't upset, don't discouraged, the more don't. When cynicism career stalled, can't outstanding vitality, or should we rethink their own choice.
35. Attention and maintain mental health
Mental health is health is an important part of, if one's mental health will not produce psychological diseases. Mental illness can lead to DuoZhong the happening of the disease and can emphasize certain disease, will seriously affect our health. So, we must focus on and maintain mental health, to do this, the most main is to have an optimistic positive attitude.
36. Don't to life. And hadn
Face can neither don't, also can't all to. We must to this problem have a correct understanding. Otherwise, from think to the face, but in fact is often loses face, to lose face may matter small, but in order to face and life are really is not cost-effective.
37. Be good to yourself, to love yourself
Others can excuse me you, but you can't sorry themselves. To oneself good, treasure your love, is the most, basic demand, is also responsible for yourself performance. Every living in the world of people, no matter when, no matter what happens to be good to yourself.
38. Don't waste valuable time
We spend how many money will not buy instant, that nothing in the world is more precious time. We can't keep time, but we can cherish the time. To cherish the time, the heaviest if want reasonable effective use of your time. We want to cherish the time this idea deep into the bottom of my heart, don't waste every day.
39. The ego suggest that change
Don't let the negative ego control ourselves, to suggest that with the positive self suggested that change. The positive self suggested that repeated practice, can let us use some more positive thoughts and concepts to replace our past old, negative thinking mode, this is a positive attitude, is also a kind of ability in the short change mentality method.
40. To be brave to present himself
Desire is people consciously shown to people can, the desire of knowledge, accomplishment. For us, to enhance its positive desire is a force for the inner motive power of endeavour. Who has it, he will have more opportunity for development, and close to the success of the other side.
41. Dare to recommend to others
Life has a lot of opportunity is to rely on their own to fight for. If you have the ability, should go for volunteer to that many people can't do task, and you just show you the corporation, the existence of your chances of success will also increase greatly.
42. Don't have "talent" feeling
"Talent", the most is by of its own making. Don't have "talent" feeling, because it can become your psychological burden, the serious influence to your normal mentality. So, we should earnestly to do the right thing, even if really is, and should also be underused talent happy.
43. The act immediately
Immediate action up, don't have any delays. Want to know the world all the plans can't help you success, to realize the ideal, have to hurry to action. The way of success have, but action is every winners must pay, the action is also leads to a shortcut to success.
44. Don't let hesitate imprisoned for yourself
In the modern world, full of opportunity, but the chance is pin longitudinal fleeting, once had the opportunity, they should be timely, will grasp the resolute decision, the courage to act, and not hesitate, otherwise, you can never stood there looking at someone else to succeed.
45. No matter when it should be to save money
Extravagance and waste is a shameful behavior, thrift is a virtue. We should at all times to save money, poverty to thrift, rich more to save money. Only in this way can we keep rich, and also will be more and more rich.
46. Control of his emotions
Some people as long as emotional way, what, what words did not dare to say, dares to do anything, this is very dangerous. There is a: "god will destroy a person, you will have to have made him crazy." We want to control his anger, the owner of the emotions, and do not become slaves of emotions.
47. Tolerance is life's a supreme state
Tolerance is the person to work, a positive attitude, is familiar to virtue. To forgive your relatives and friends, tolerant your opponent and enemies, this is ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign to achieve the necessary the mentality. Of course, also want to know palliative and allow is not tolerance, you must learn tolerance and indulgent scale and discretion-for some people not too tolerant.
48. Don't complain about this complain that
Life can hear some we often whining. Many things in life tell us: will only complain about who is able to do things. Some people, although life is unfair to them, but they did not go to complain about it, but others complain that used to complain about time in hard work, as a result, they will get a sit up and take notice of the results.
Enjoy yourself up
49. Always keep a warmly of my heart
Don't have a warmly of heart, no matter what we do, we can't be completed. Zeal is a way of good mindset, is also a kind of stimulate the tremendous power of their own potential. In the life and work, in the heart of a warmly treat everything, usually will produce a miracle.
50. Success depends on unity cooperation
"A fence three piles, 3 to help a hero", want to build a great things, must rely on everyone's mutual effort. In this highly competitive environment, just a man beat the world is not the reality, we must have the spirit of unity and cooperation with people, can play the advantage of concentration, a successful career in business.
51. The fear out the door
Everyone will have all kinds of fear, the fear is not only a psychological shadow, more important is, it can prevent you from action. How to overcome fear? The most effective way is: the fear out the door. Or, bravely take practical steps.
52. To give oneself establish goals
Our life cannot be no goal and no goal of life is like no head of flies. To set up the goal, try our best to advance to the target, the successful people can be successful, because they can do it. One of the goals of the achievements, the greater the often. To set up a big goals, and a small target set, when small target to achieve a goal, big can achieve.
53. Hope alive
A heart without hope, is like a walking corpse, with no life at all. We should keep in mind a hope, live in hope, we will be in trouble, will keep morale live free and easy.
54. Enjoy yourself up
We need most is happy, a full of happy people are happy. Since we all like happy, we should let ourselves be happy, the key is to have a happy mentality, have happy state of mind, happiness is not, it can only stay somewhere else to our side.
55. Should remain upbeat
Optimistic people see what all optimistic, no matter where, will be affected by others, and welcome, success and health will accompany him. A pessimist is just the opposite. We must keep a optimistic attitude, do an optimist, our life will send out brilliance.
56. Don't let yourself live too tired
A man's life is very long, but in fact it had up very soon. And the whole history, it is more than fleeting moment a casting. Therefore, we should forget unhappy, can't borrow trouble, more can't let yourself "live tired".
57. Affordable, to put next
Each of us has a lot of "baby", but you can't get anything and, in some cases must learn to affordable, to put next. Affordable is courage, to put next), take up is is valuable, to put next is detached. Life's greatest respect is affordable, life's greatest comfort is to put next.
58. People doing things should be tolerance
For the cloud "endure into gold", Confucius had also said "little neglect may breed great mischief", it serves to show for our own tolerance and how important it is. Whether colleagues, or neighbors, friends, or both husband and wife, the need for mutual tolerance, this is a kind of people doing things necessary mentality.
59. The person wants to be thankful
For a living, so we should be thankful. Thanksgiving is a tolerant and open-minded, is a great sentiment. Everything in the world is worth us grateful, we will be a better life.
60. No need to get angry
Angry will waste time, will hurt people, the more will hurt yourself, serious when still can cause all sorts of tragedy. In fact, think about it, it is not worth, angry to themselves and to others does not have the advantage. Life is short, we all so good there really is no need to get angry.
61. And I don't
We in the person to work problems, the vast majority are our own reasons. Whether life or doing things, more flexible, don't their own hard, especially not with I, this is a kind of responsible for his performance.
62. Will is diligent, don't lazy
We review the successful career, none of the diligent work conscientiously, and laziness is the biggest enemy of success. In today's society, tried to get something for nothing is impossible, also is not realistic. For us, to diligence don't lazy, as to succeed don't as important as failure.
63. The form the good habit of saving
If no savings, a lot of our plan will make no sense. Opportunities exist at everywhere, but offers only to those who have spare money hand, or who have a savings habits, and know how to make use of the money. We must develop the good habit of saving, this not only is we do we capital, is also a kind of virtue.
64. Accept and treat them
Whether we would be willing to admit that lesson, lesson is objective existence, can't find teaching is actually avoid conflicts. Lesson is to defeat and failure of rational thinking, is our life's a valuable wealth, we must take the lesson, be good to them. Although experience can help, but lessons but it makes you useful life.
65. The praise to someone
You know, everyone likes the praise from others. As long as timely and praise, not only can eliminate barriers between people, promote each other's feeling, the more important is to be able to let you in on communication is very popular. Remember: do not save your praise, to the timely praise to someone.
66. Don't care about is slowly getting old
Most people are afraid to grow old, and his fear of others said his old, actually this need not. Slowly always who all can't change the fact that, we should all embrace, and from slowly old in search for fun, and only slowly old, we can slowly enjoy life.
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